Reproduction of family strengthening the family bonds of affection
mm to eliminate the counseling rebellious junior high school (b)
Analysis on the Theme
children grow older, adults will have a sense, there independence, most of the performance of deviate from or contradict with their parents. This departure from the generally contradict the child with a real mature until after the reduction. the child during this time period we call the rebellious children. child rebellious period, the rapid growth of the children, if not the boot very well, or is not correct, it may influence a child for future growth. Therefore, we should focus on them during this time, psychological counseling in this regard.
classes of mental activity in this section design, the main hope that by drawing hypnotic techniques, and guide students into the realm of meditation, followed by the teacher's introductory phrase, into the feelings and become separated after their parents after the parents get back the feeling of contrast, and then came to realize that the warmth of family affection.
counseling goals create a family atmosphere through the activities, representation and reinforcement of family affection, let the children finish the warmth of home and experience the hardships and great parents.
counseling strategies guided meditation, games, reinforcing internalized.
key and difficult the use of hypnosis skills to enable students to enter the context of meditation.
focus: to introduce students to life with their parents is a great opportunity to create situations for students to experience the psychological after their parents left the sense of loss. and then feel the home is a warm haven .
difficult: every step forward the timing counseling (not progressive); the students moved from the depth of repentance to the enjoyment of family warmth in the context of pleasure.
【Activities】
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counseling activities during the design process
intent
1, warming up a group of three students each
, reported that the number of groups, group play after three students were children, dad, mom. or a group of students and their parents.
whistle for the teacher to launch the password, and command the students to follow their own paces. first paragraph of the activities of the teacher facing student conductor. so that students feel to do the opposite action with teachers more difficult. the second paragraph of activities to a student carrying a student conductors to the podium, that is, those who command and imitation of action in the same direction. This is little chance of error. Thus, the teacher reveals the uncomfortable carrying hard to do, down in a very easy to very comfortable. At the same time recognize student response, and sensitivity well. The teacher said, a good sensitivity in this activity we will succeed.
2, meditation
opportunity to guide meditation, meditation himself into a quiet room without lights , (point lights or curtains, or close your eyes).
introductory phrase: very comfortable quiet enjoy it. Then imagine the room slowly become larger space, to infinity, into space, I could see far away of the solar system, to see Earth, you slowly close to the earth, you walk through a sea of people on the planet in the. when you meet people you are most pro-father and mother. You take the hand of father and mother. But surging crowd , squeeze to open you and Dad. you are very anxious mother. You took my mother, my mother took you to find him, shouting mm Dad, the noisy sound of disappearing into the crowd. searching mm crowded, crowded mm seeker. your mother and the body sweating, little energy left. The reality is cruel, a flow re-Bay over, broke free again, pull your mother's hand, my mother is also anxious to squeeze in time crowds, looking for their children, so a family of three, was isolated from the realities of life.
3, lost one leg to stand looking
your best experience. a big crowd, unaccompanied. lonely, helpless, lost, anxiety, when we feel helpless without their loved ones, without the pain of their loved ones. I tried to squeeze in the crowd, the body sweat out anxiously, and finally, I saw my father and saw the father is also delighted to discover me, my father waved hello to me and we all crowded together towards each other, finally both of us to hold together. no mother we are still anxious, and then Dad and I caught each other's hand tightly and began to find her mother in the crowd. Finally, Heaven has eyes, we found the mother to see my mother burst into tears, shouting loudly and anxiously, although the crowd drowned him cry, but I know she was calling my name. I have with my father waved wildly, desperately toward each other near crowded. then of resistance difficult we have to come together again, we have resorted to all our strength, and slowly getting closer , slowly getting closer, and finally got hold of the mother's hands.
4, mental run
We thank God for the opportunity again, we cherish this opportunity, the vast sea of humanity, is our most Parents, we neither can do without, and we hugged. Dad would say is: the child you grow up, you know better, you will forgive me no culture, I have no experience, I have a lot of time to do well, I'm sorry you. I think kids would say: Yes, ah, I sometimes do not, and sometimes even blame you, give you back trouble, I am very sorry for you. At this time, my mother has been crying, stroking his pride and joy. tightly hold the family together in a.
parents stroked the child's face, that parents face is not as flexible as before, more wrinkles, the hand is not so delicate, back and not very well connected. The heart of the children all know, these are at your home difficult for me, at the results of the working class.
5, describing the Zhongchang
In fact, the family can get together, this is heaven gift, really rare. we cherish this fate, the tears is a better witness. This is the feeling of moisture, which is love springs. I believe you have a lot of psychological words to say very early on. Well , open my heart to say what he wanted. people can not be perfect, to say the Lord to his own weaknesses and his own hardships that out, please baby, please forgive their parents. to speak out their ideals, let us work together to help you to achieve.
6, focused on sharing
praise the good in others, said his lack of experience about the truth. (background music, > 1, have heart disease, high blood pressure can not participate in .2 in the event, moved to observe the extent to prevent excessive, lasting emotional .3, activities, observation and after doing further psychological comfort, to track changes in children.
create an atmosphere of home.
relaxing activities carried out to enable students to psychological open.
low difficulty carrying out activities for students to develop self-confidence.
use hypnosis techniques to guide students and parents to go into the creation of separated situation.
experience in the process of looking.
concern for parents.
experience and feel separated from their families.
difficult to find, the experience is not the loss of parents, loneliness, helplessness, fear, ,,,,,,< br> cherish the opportunity with their parents.
embraced each other, experience and feelings between the parents: the warmth of happiness.
boot into context, a rare treasure, then psychosocial talk to each other.
further to experience the hardships and paying parents.
guide tell their inner thoughts in the backlog.
praise the good in others, say that they lack.
motor arrangements, see the time may be. to share the warmth of home.
this part of the Content is the essential content of counseling courses, must pay attention to special children and the overall follow-up observation.
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